If you want to have a better sex life later in life than you do now, you can work to rejuvenate it. When was the last time you really took some time to pamper yourself? If it has been a while then take some time to do so. Go get a new outfit and a hair cut or color. Buy some new make up and plan a romantic dinner for you and your partner.
Allow yourself some time to fantasize about sex during the day as well. Take a nice warm bath before bed. You can picture what you will do with your partner when you are done with the bath. Leave them a detailed note in the morning about plans for the evening. It can certainly make a huge difference in the way you see each other romantically. Keep it fresh and alive so that no one gets bored with the sexual activity that is taking place.
Take a look at your mental well being as well. If you aren’t in the best of moods then do what you can to perk yourself up or seeing a professional counselor can help you out as well. Sometimes, issues not dealt with in the relationship can lead to tension and resentment. If you can get them on the table and out of the way your sex life will likely improve.
Taking care of yourself physically is important as well. Don’t let yourself get lazy or overweight food and drinking are not the answer and nor is porn. Staying active and eat well so you can maintain a healthy weight. You may need to work with a dietician to plan healthier meals for it is never too late in life to make such lifestyle changes. It does take some planning, discipline and commitment but you will find many great benefits from it.
Get rid of those nasty habits such as excessively drinking alcohol for I guarantee you that in the long run it will lower your sexual desire and performance, especially for men. Smoking is also a factor that will become more of an issue as you get older. Being comfortable in your own skin and with how you look is a great way to get you in the mood to initiate sexual activity with your partner as well. They will find it to be a tremendous turn on that you are attracted to them. Oh, what a feeling!
Sometimes just changing the location of where sex will take place can make it better. If you are always doing the act at home, take a weekend vacation to some place romantic and you can also play around with the different rooms in the house to spice it up a bit. There are books on new positions and even on romancing your partner to look at as well. You may find talking honestly with your partner about how to please them can really make a difference. I recommend the Karma Sutra books, the 365 positions and yes the movie. A must watch. I am sharing this for I am a solutionist!
There are herbal pills for both men and women on the market as well. Since you can buy them over the counter at most health food stores people assume they are 100% safe to take. Still, you need to consult with your doctor first. You may not be healthy enough to engage in sexual activity. You certainly don’t want to risk your health for sex so getting a full assessment from a professional is the best place to start.
The moral to this chat with you, is to live and love life to the fullest however take precautions, think and act smart!
Enjoy you life to the fullest!!! Age is just a number!!!